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How to help your tech savvy child

10/17/2021

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I am sure you are aware how the young children of the now are different form their older siblings or buddies who are already in mid/high school or even in college. That group of kids are already very attached to technical devices, but these younger kids are even more. It is amazing how fast they can figure out things and then put into practice. One of the boys in my last class (6 yeas old) was telling me stories how he could open and use grandma’s, mom’s, his sister’s ect.’s phone. Then he got silent for a second and said: ”But I cannot open my dad’s phone. He is too fast!” 😊 I asked him a few months later if he could open his dad’s phone. He said with a big smile on his face: “oh, yeeee!!”

I know how hard is to get children engaged while you need some time to make dinner, you have another child, or and a husband etc. The easiest way to make these kids calm down and quiet if we give them an electronic “toy”. I know you already know all the advantages and disadvantages of screen time. I don’t want to lecture you about it. But here is an idea to compromise with your child:

-Why don’t you try to teach your child about a short “me time” before bed. You turn off all the electronic devices (if it is possible even the TV next room; he/she can get a book (before you come into his room to read a night story-if it is still applicable), maybe you can light a candle if it is safe and you let your child be with his/her thoughts for a few minutes. Do not start it with 10 minutes. In the beginning start with 1 minute, saying: ”I will be back in a minute” and then really come in. Next time, extend it to 1.5 minutes. Yes, you will have rejection and withdrawal syndromes in the beginning, but if you are consistent… for a while, I promise it will work. Eventually they will get used to and they will want this “me time” later, you can send them outside during the day and just make them sit on the ground or lay down and look at the clouds…. So if you cannot shorten their “screen times”, then introduce/require some “Me time”. Yes, they will rebel in the beginning saying: they are bored and come up with all excuses. But keep this “Me time” remarkably shorter than screen time, so they will see how fair you are.

Here is why:

Why it is really important that we need to teach these “kids of our time” to be with themselves, because these children are very sensitive in many ways. Their brain needs a few minutes to shut down the effect of the screen vibrating. Their energy field needs some time to ground those ions and vibes from the phone or tablet. Their need a few moments to reflect and think about their day/behavior. It is different from when they discuss their day with you. It is their time. Their time to look into themselves. Silence will turn on things which might be suppressed. Trust the process! When you were a child, you had time outs…; many times, nowadays, teachers are not allowed to make kids sit down, and many times you rather give him/her something to do rather than make them stay calm for 2-3 minutes. Your evenings are so short and everything is WIFI and vibrating around us all day long. Stillness can move things and they can move to the right direction!

Another tool that can help your child to go to sleep in a clam way is to give her/him a crystal. They can just hold it and look at it. They can do many things with that crystal, like “pretend it is my phone/your tablet” (in case of some rejection). The result of giving her a “magnetite crystal” may surprise both of you. Dim the room by lowering the lights, drawing in the curtains… etc.. help your child calm down mentally, emotionally and physically before sleeping. You will see surprising results at school, in behavior and the way they think.

​Let me know how it works for you. Leave your comments here!

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When A Turtle Swims Against The Flow

8/22/2020

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This time I would like to share with you that I consider NATURE my REAL TEACHER.If we walk with open eyes between trees and animals, they teach us valuable lessons about life and the the Law of the Universe.

This what happened the other day: I was walking by the canal at Princeton and I noticed the water was swirling unusually much, almost like crazy.

I took a closer look and I noticed that there was a really small turtle in the water. Maybe she was the size of my palm. What happened was that after swimming in one direction, she decided to turn around and swim in the other way –against the flow..

The result was not satisfying at all, and she couldn't do it  a long while. Her tiny legs were paddling like crazy, but she hadn’t moved and inch. Then she stopped for a second and the flow started to take her …
 
Realizing the force against hers, she started to swim again, still in the same direction- against the flow(!)- with even less success, because she started to move backwards though she intended to get forward.
 
Then I noticed the proportion of the turtle and the canal. How huge, gigantic the canal is comparing to this tiny, determined, strong willed turtle…

Then it hit me.
 
How similar we are to this turtle. The universe is huge, operating by its own laws and forces. We are tiny comparing to the universe.

We have our strong (small) will, especially when we set a goal. We go, swim, we do whatever it takes, we stress out and have anxiety… and we don’t notice that we are actually going against Thy will. If we could stop for a moment, we would be bale to see that "dinner may even swim by" and that the flow can turn us gently around and take us to a safe place: to the shore, to a swimming log or anything that can make our life easier. Swimming against to flow will definitely makes us stronger but it will not take us anywhere.
 
Next time when you realize that life is too challenging again; when you see that one obstacle comes up after the other; take a moment and see yourself as this tiny turtle.
 
Take a deep breath and set your intention that today, only today, you will go with the flow, and you will not judge, criticize anything or anybody,

You will mostly say yes to any request comes to you (if it make sense and for the highest good) (Watch the movie: Yes Man by Jim Carrey) and see your circumstances as an outsider rather than a victim.
 
Have fun by swimming with the flow, till next time



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You Might Be Really Good At Meditation Without Knowing It

8/19/2020

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Thank you again for those of you who are interactive and ask questions from me. I love personal messages from you; and I would be grateful if you would leave a comment after reading the blog, and if you would type your questions there as well. Your curiosity may inspire others. One of you asked me if I could share some thoughts about meditation. She said:" I meditate every day, but I don't know if I am doing it well".
 
Meditation is getting to become an evergreen topic nowadays. Since we have more freedom to practice spirituality and the pendulum is swinging more to the yin side (feminine) of human consciousness, we let ourselves be more intuitive. Those facts and techniques which were considered "woohoo", or even dark or claimed witchcraft, are now subjects of experiments in science and are more accepted as everyday topics to talk about. There are more and more movies coming out which are connected to some kind of supernatural forces, talents etc..., not even mentioning how popular yoga has gotten. Just look around and see how many yoga classes are offered (in studios and gyms) in your neighborhood (not now, when still too many places are closed down, but you know what I am talking about). Many people actually connect yoga and meditation and actually, they are not right, in a way.
 
It is proven by research by now that people who go to a meditative state, their brain waves, heart beat and pulse slows down. On the long run these people are proven to be more balanced and show more endurance against everyday distress. I don't want to go into the pros of meditation (Google them if you want to know more about the topic).
 
What my goal with this blog is 1/ to approach the "what meditation really is and how to do it well" topic from a practical point of view, 2/ to help those people who cannot turn their minds off; whose minds speed 20 miles per second and cannot be in the moment for one second. 3/ to give some feedbacks to those who are already on the path but they are not sure about their practice.
 
Let's start: Meditation is really not a new thing. It is at least as old as humanity. It is a modified or altered state of mind. The point or the goal is to turn off the external and focus or just simply be within the internal. And there are surprisingly many ways to achieve this.


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Mediation is like any other skills (art, cooking, singing, carpentry, etc).  Nobody is born with being a master of meditation, but some people can learn easier to turn their minds off and learn faster than others to stay still. It does not mean they do not have to practice it.

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Others want to meditate so badly; they keep trying but they feel it is like the unreachable fruit on the tree... They have tried a few times but it didn't work, so they drew the conclusion - it is not for them.

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Let me tell you a personal story and I will connect it to our topic we discuss here. Many years ago I tried Kung Fu. It is the furthest thing from me to do, but I was curious and it was a good friend of mine who stared to teach Kung Fu, so I wanted to support her. Well, I felt the yin and yang, I felt the chi moving in my body during the class... I was in the moment and the flow and IT WAS AN EXPERIENCE, but after the second class I told the girl, it was not for me. She smiled and said: "I saw you. I saw you were almost in if not totally in a trance while others were doing the warm up as a challenge, sweating and already "suffering". You did every movement but you were doing Tai Chi, Qi gong and belly dance at the same time. I think you are done with Kung Fu. You might have done it in another life. You don't need this experience in this life." BANG!!!! It hit me so deep! Even if I couldn't see myself as a warrior, I knew I had lives as a monk and had to fight, so I know and knew at that time that I used to do martial art.  So what she said made and didn't make sense. Since if we had learnt and did something in another life, though we have a "new body" in this life (in this consciousness) and our soul remembers, shouldn't we know how to do it then?  If I had done it in another life, why it is not coming out now?
 
On the contrary of my Kung Fu experience, when I went to my very first belly dance classes visiting two different teachers, they both asked the same thing: "How long have you been belly dancing? Why did you come to the beginner level?" "Well", I said, "because it is the first time I am doing it. It is my first class" So my soul remembered and when I heard the music, my soul stated to move my body, but not on a beginner level, but on a level as if I had been doing it for years.  It didn't end here. Once, one of the teachers put on a fusion of belly dance and Indian music. I started to dance as it felt right to me and I let my body follow the music. She asked me where I learned the type of Indian dance I just performed. I had no idea what she was talking about and the name of the style she mentioned did not even sound familiar. It was also funny, because anything she said about how special that type of dance was (the type of dance that was taught not "just for anyone" went in one ear and out through the other. Weird, right? You hear some music and you start dancing in a way you have never done before; someone can name the style you perform, however you don't even know what you are doing.... Then, when you are faced with this fact, you just shrug your shoulder and move on... Oh, and let me tell you, it took me years to put my Indian "roots" to the back burner and clear my Middle Eastern style.
 
So what is the difference between the Kung Fu experience and the belly dance /Indian dance experience? It was noticeable that I did practice both. I knew it was true about Kung FU (I had "memories" about it, sort of), but I didn't remember about being such a good dancer in another reality. Yet Kung Fu was suggested not to be forced :) and dancing was impossible to be stopped and held back, but I consciously chose to suppress Indian dancing. How does it come to meditation?


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What my friend told me about Kung Fu and me, I am telling you. You might have experience having been a master of meditation in another reality. You could get into that altered state of mind in a wink. But in THIS reality, in THIS EARTHly plane, you have no access to this skill or knowledge. You know it is there, you know it is good for you, you vaguely remember it but you don't have access to it.
 
Here is a clue. Meditation is a passive or yin way of being. If you did nothing but meditate in another reality, now you need to experience the yang, the active, the crazy. You need to experience exhausting your mind, brain, body and soul in this lifetime so much that in the "next" one you will have the urge and longing for learning how to be still and receptive. And believe me, you will have discipline in that reality to sit still and let things come to you because you will be ready for it. Do I make sense? In that reality, you will be able to bring the two (yin and yang/ passive and active/ mediate and create) into balance.  How many lifetimes do you need for this? Who knows.. It is up to you. :)
The conclusion, for anyone or everyone who cannot meditate at all or feels there is a block or something is missing:  It is OK. This is where you are now. Be patient; accept yourself and your crazy mind.  It will come. And read further, because you might be surprised what I have for you.
 
For those dear fellows of mine who are to start meditation or have been doing it for a while, I can suggest reading on and just putting this to the back file in this moment: Find the balance between self guidance and following external guidance. As you have already read your soul remembers. So if you are already "tasting" or doing meditation, the very best guide to follow is your inner compass, soul and inner teacher. More about it in a second.


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Now, here is another thing:  say, you (try to) meditate every day and you have different experiences, so you start questioning which one is the real one. Why was this morning mediation different than yesterday's. If you Google "types of mediation"...., well good luck not to feel overwhelmed. My mind was spinning and wowed by the headlines on types of mediation. I saw 6, 7, 9, 13 even 26 types of mediation. Gee!! I, personally, would not be able to read through 26 different ways to go to alpha or deeper... that is not me. But you may want to know precisely the differences between the types. Then I encourage you to go for it and research more.
 
What I have known for a long time is that there are originally two different types of meditation. Sounds simpler than 26, right?  This is what I found on the internet:
 
"Zen meditation is similar to mindfulness in that it's about focusing on the presence of mind. However, mindfulness focuses on a specific object, and Zen meditation involves a general awareness. ... During Zen meditation, practitioners also dismiss any thoughts that pop into their minds and essentially think about nothing. " Google / Mar 21, 2019. I will summarize up the 6 six+1 types of meditation in a chart at the end of this blog. It will tell you the name, a short description and an example of it.
 
Instead of writing about things you can find on the internet, let me share with you another personal experience about how I taught myself to mediate without knowing what it was at all.
 
When I was a very young child I made a bedtime ritual that I did after my mom finished reading a fairy tale to me and right before I went to sleep every single night. I don't remember how I started it. My family members are everything but spiritual, so nobody taught me about "these things". But my dad was an anatomist. I don't remember, he would show me any anatomy atlas or pictures of the human body, organs, etc, but I had the knowledge about the different parts of my body on a high level. There is no other logical explanation (except my dad's influence) why as a 3-4 year old child did this: I laid in my bed, closed my eyes and went through (scanned) my whole body saying thanks to every part of my body for serving me..." thank you my feet for holding me, thank you my legs for making me run, thank you ... thank you my heart for circulating blood around in my body and I can feel happy, sad and love(d) ... thank you my eyes for helping me see trees and animals, etc...". Then I fell asleep. It is not the typical way how a 3-4 year-old goes to bed, right?
 
By the time I became a teenager, I left out the "thank you" part unfortunately. I don't remember why, but I went to sleep by relaxing my whole body part by part, like feet, ankle, calves .... up to my head and then I went  to sleep.
 
The practice to relax myself before I go to sleep for years resulted in this: When I went to a yoga class or a workshop as an adult where we meditated the only thing I heard: "take a deep breath"... then nothing. Blank. Then I heard again "Take a deep breath, stretch your fingers and open your eyes..." How much time passed between the two? Maybe 5, 10 minutes or even an hour? I could never tell. Until I heard the magic word "stretch", I was sleeping like a baby on the chair. How many amazing experiences had I "missed" (or not, because they say you get and hear everything in your subconscious mind. Well, these amazing teachings stayed in my subconscious ever since...:))


Then I told myself: I know how to relax my body. It is good. Now I need to learn to stay awake/conscious! Period. Ok, but how should I train my brain? At that time, there was no internet in Hungary. I had a library phobia because I was dyslexic (still am) and I always felt too overwhelmed with those codes and numbers on the library shelves. I couldn't ask for help, because I did not even know the word what meditation really meant and I had no friends who were spiritual or did anything "out of the norm", like me. I had no other choice; I needed to become my own teacher. 

I started to keep looking at one point and tried not to think about anything else, like looking at the clouds in the sky, or I found a stain on the wall and stared at it.... guess what, I fell asleep.
 
Actually, it was a bit silly to try this technique again. I don't know what made me think that this technique which put me to sleep 10-15 years ago would now teach me to meditate. When I was very young (3-4 years sold), my mom "forced" me to have an afternoon nap which of course I never wanted to do. We napped in the living room on the couch. She knew that I would sneak out and go to play, so she probably wanted me under control hoping that she would wake up if I moved... Well, most of the time I still snuck out and went to play very quietly, but when I wanted to be an especially good girl and I really wanted to put myself to sleep, regardless of all my atoms were on "go on mode", I was looking at one of her dolls on top of the bookshelf till I went to sleep. It was my go for technique; I always went to sleep by staring at one of her dolls. Now, 15 years later, I thought that was the solution. But things we keep doing over and over again will burn a deep path in our nervous system, creating a "reflex cycle". These are called habits. These are very hard to break. I made this Zen meditation technique to my "go to sleep path", which worked really well for many years. Of course, it was not the right way to learn to stay awake while I meditate.
 
The lesson from this little story is: if you are the type of meditation student who keeps falling asleep, think about if you might have the same issue like I used to have.  If your mom used to read you night stories which guaranteed you fell asleep and you still go to sleep as an adult to a monotonous sound of stream, you might find guided meditation hard for you. A soft tone, usually woman's voice, is telling you what to do and imagine step by step might totally relax you and you go to dreamland. There is nothing wrong with it. You just need to revise the technique and find another way to meditate; meanwhile you rewrite this kind of technique for yourself step by step.


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Going back to the journey how I self taught to meditate myself: after I realized that focusing on one point is not the path, I needed to find another technique.
 
Before I got better with my new meditation technique (sharing with you in a minute), I realized that I could turn off my mind and keep it empty for longer and longer periods of time. I did not stare at anything, I just started to say: "My mind is empty, my mind is empty, my mind is empty....." for a few times so it became a mantra that really cleaned and emptied my mind and then I could stay still in the nothingness. Ever since I have discovered this technique, it is still my favorite! I love that silence and emptiness.
 
This new technique to focus on the breathing and emptiness, made my first breakthrough. I did not know it was the fundamental goal and that I was already meditating. Now I know. (You see, how funny, I kept trying the same type of mediation (Zen). One way didn't work, I found another)
 
The second breakthrough came right after this first. This was the time I started to learn about the chakras and it was enough for me to hear once that they need to be clean and spin effortlessly; I "knew" what I needed to do. I didn't, but it came so easily and felt so natural that I still remember the very first time I did it (in this lifetime). I assume something triggered old memories and like in belly dancing the gate opened up and I knew what and how to do the steps. It is actually very simple and logical.
 
Our mind loves to be in control. So I gave my mind the power and permission to guide me through the chakras. I/my mind told me what color I should see and that I needed to breathe the white light in through the crown right into the chakra and breathe out within the chakra until it was clear... 
 
If you know a little bit about the types of meditation or if you have ever done guided mediation, it is it. I guided myself through the meditation. Until today, It is the easiest way for me to meditate: "Inner guided meditation": telling myself what to do and imagine. Do I still fall asleep when I am tired....? Oh, yes, definitely. You would smile seeing me sitting on the floor with the wall behind me with my head tilted to the front ... "interesting way to meditate, right?"... But I accept that I have days when I just can't, and I know next day it will work, and usually it is true. Next day it is really strong and goes fast. I am awake and conscious. Very often, when I am done with (protection -I didn't write about it in this blog, but it is important), chakra cleansing, emptying my mind, I stay quiet, call my guides or ask for information and then I wait for the answer to come in. These are the types of meditations which bring a lot of insights, and very often tears of realization or healing. (This is called Higher self meditation or Channeling)
 
You can ask why I shared these personal stories about self teaching. Because, first of all, I think personal stories are the best way to teach you something new and make you feel better about the hiccups you make on your way. And second, I can tell you the same thing about meditation as I say to my belly dance students.  "You know this dance, you just need to remember". Everybody is dancing in a way. When you are swaying your baby, you are dancing. When you are skipping a few puddles, you are dancing. When you hear your favorite music and start moving your hand and shaking your head and torso while you are waiting at the red light, you are dancing. (By the way, there is a type of meditation: Moving meditation, here we go: you dance, have fun and meditate)


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It is the same with meditation. You know how to do it; you just need to remember it. You may say, "Wait a minute, you said in the beginning that maybe it will be in my "next life" when I will be ready for it, in this life, I need to experience to exhaust myself, so why do you say, I already know how to do it?" "Because", I would say: "You already practice meditation in a way, or you meditate much more than you realize". Just read on, we are very close to the finale with a few ideas about how you can practice meditation easily:
 
- Mediation is not strictly about repeating Sanskrit mantras or sitting still in the nothingness. When you are saying your rosary, it is a meditation. I have funny stories about how it went for me, but it is a truly beautiful way to clear your mind and soul. It could be a cathartic experience. (This is a kind of mantra meditation)


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- When you are in nature and you forget about the world for a second because of the beauty of a flower and the perfection of its divine smell. Or another example: when you are looking at your child who is fighting to stay on the bicycle with the training wheels on, you see the determination, triumph and mindful concentration on her face, and you have tears in your eyes of love and grace to God that you can see this and experience it, you are in oneness with God.  You are just pure love. You have no thoughts, no anxiety. There is nothing else in that moment but love and oneness with God. You are Love. That is an altered state of consciousness. It is the highest level you can go. Just to be and become love and light yourself, like God. Payers to God are thought to be the pathway to reach this level. We pray to become one with the Divine. However, the only shortcut to God is to be in the moment and "simply" become love.

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- You can look for mantras on the internet and see which one talks to you and makes sense the most. There are mantras about wisdom, clearing up blocks, protection, for love and or wealth and prosperity etc. You just need to keep repeating the mantra you chose while you are driving, cleaning, waiting at the cashier.... the good thing with mantras is that you can just keep repeating them. You don't need to bring your heart into it. It is a mind thing. While keep repeating your mantras, you will leave no space for bad thoughts.... The vibes of the words plus the meaning of your chosen mantra will rewire your brain and you will start to attract different opportunities into your life. It is definitely worth a try. I did this type of meditation for hours while I was walking on the beach in Galveston, TX. Oh, I loved how I felt after an hour of walking in the water and repeating the same few mantras. Honestly, it is the safest way of brainwashing. Repeating the divine words will leave your mind buzzing of emptiness but in a very good sense. I call it Divine brainwashing ... One of my favorite mantras is

"Ohm, ma ni mad me hum" The 6 true words... Google it! :)


- Deepak Chopra and Oprah do a series of meditations on a regular basis. Very generously, they offer the meditations for free to everyone. I love listening to their wisdom. I am wowed every single time how simply Chopra can express the truth. He always teaches a mantra, explains the meaning of it and then comes silence. This is when I always fall asleep. One of my friends told me this is the time when she does the dishes... Well, it may not sound very respectful, but she is open for thoughts that alter the way she perceives the world, and this is how she can maintain to stay awake, unlike me who wants to learn to stay conscious for a long time, yet I fall asleep. :)  These are only two people. I wonder how the other few millions do these absolutely amazing meditations.
 
- Another way to train your brain to stop chasing thoughts after thoughts is for example you go for a walk. While you are walking, you start paying attention to every little details. How one foot is stretching in the shoe, do both of your feet feel the same in the shoes or one of them fills up the shoe more than the other? How do your feet touch the ground, do you feel any bumps or holes on the walkway? How about your arms: how heavy are they? etc... You see where I am going with this. This is meditation.  You are in the moment. You are in an altered state of mind, you focus on the inner world and you are IN THE MOMENT. (This is called Mindfulness mediation or this activity can go under moving meditation)

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- Actually you are also in meditation - which you may have never thought of or considered it as a meditation - when you are doing something, anything you really enjoy and you are in the flow of the action and the process, which makes you feel happy and fulfilled. You really feel "fully filled".  You have no gap for thoughts or worries. You are in the process. You may not even think, or you may realize thoughts coming up, but you let them go without any judgment (that is Zen meditation, by the way). This is when you do not realize how fast time has passed. Everything disappears for a second, or for minutes or for hours.... you are in the creative flow of altered state of mind: you are meditating. Everybody has had this experience at least once in their life. If you think you never have, then it happened maybe when you were a child. You see, you can meditate. You have done it already (I told you when you stopped me for a second :)), you just need to repeat it if you really want to meditate in this lifetime.
 
So the very last thoughts about meditation for now: There is no way to do it in the wrong way. It is a journey and every moment, every meditation is an experience in itself. Accept it, embrace it, and if it is still not enough for you, find a class.


As I promised above, here is a summary in a chart on the 6 most popular types of meditation, what they mean and a practical example on how to do them - either from my stories or from my suggestions:
Meditation Chart
And my very last and final word of conclusion coming from above (channeling) when I was asking insights form above meditation:
 
"You are always in meditation. Meditation is your default existence,  you just think you need to achieve it. Sometimes you catch yourself fall off the track in this or another reality. Immediately when you find your way back to oneness, you are back in your meditative state of being"
 
If you liked this blog, please like it and then share it with your friends who you know they cannot meditate or want to learn it. If one thought helps them on their way, we both did a good deed. I wrote this blog to help and you sent it in someone's way, who will grow by it. Namaste
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"I have Death Anxiety"

8/8/2020

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Thank you for everyone who sent a personal feedback about the last blog. I always appreciate honest feedbacks. Please remember: Asking questions is actually helping both of us. I will have more topics to write about and you will gain knowledge about topics you want to know more about.

One of you wrote to me: "I really appreciate your writings. I personally don't believe in "the things" but I am curious enough to read and think about what I have read. I really enjoy your blogs. There is one thing I cannot make peace with; and that is death. I am terrified of it and when someone from my family passes over, I am just crying endlessly. I don't know why. Do you have a few ideas about this topic?"

Well, I actually do, and I really and truly appreciate her honesty that even if she is not a firm believer of these invisible forces and how they influence our lives, she keeps reading my blogs. I hope I will be able to give her and anyone else who has issues with death (and who doesn't) a few "make sense" or "feels right" or "feels familiar" thoughts in this blog.

A quote and a rough translation from Plato: "We don't even know about death whether it is not the very best thing it can happen to us, yet we are afraid of it so much as if we know for sure it is the worst thing of all"

The topic of death is really a double edged sword. It is as she said: 1/ being afraid of experiencing death and 2/ accepting the fact that someone we love is gone. We will never see touch, talk with her or him again. It is a very sad and scary concept to our human ego ad psyche. And plus, talking about death is a very fragile, intimate topic; so it is hard to talk about it in general. Everybody perceives death in a unique and personal way, just like everybody individually experiences "life" itself. We have friends who are kindred spirits and have similar values about life matters. It is the same with death.  There are people who think very similarly or even had very similar experiences with death.

Again, since it is a very fragile topic and there are tons of materials out there about all aspects of death: physical, emotional, mental and spiritual, let me come with the attitude of a psychologist and a psychic in this blog. I will leave the emotional and personal part out of it. This blog will reflect mostly the mental and spiritual aspect of death. So please don't feel offended if something hits you or you totally disagree with it. Each paragraph that is coming up is worth to be detailed in a separate book. This means, I can only touch the tip of the iceberg.  It will not be a short blog, but I promise, it will be worth to read it. You will find information in this context that you may hardly at all or will not find anywhere else.

Let's start. Being afraid of death is a double edged sword, as I mentioned above. The person who asked me about this topic is afraid to die and she cannot deal with the feelings and pain of someone passing away. Usually the two overlap each other. In order to really know what is happening during death, the best thing would be to sit in a simulator. You could watch and feel everything regarding to death knowing that it is just a simulator and anytime you push the "STOP" button, the program will be over and you will get back to your normal state. But we know it is not the case; so for now we only have resources of books, interviews and personal experiences about anything that is related to death (form being in agony, having a terminal illness, through hospice, through the burial ceremony and the emptiness and pain that is left behind; and we need to start /continue our lives without having that person or pet around we loved so much.)


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The first and most important thing to be clear about is that we humans are afraid of things we don't know because we have no control over them. We don't have control over many things, actually most of the things in life (weather, earthquakes, hurricanes, economy, viruses, spouse's thought, kid's behavior etc), yet we can "make more or less peace" with these things; except death. Death is something dark, painful, and horrible. If I ask you what image you have about death, most probably you would see pictures of a man with a hood over the head with a scythe in his hand in your mind. A scythe was a tool used to reap, or cut grain or grass representing that we will be mowed down like grass at the end of our life time. (Not All) Churches loved to use these scary images of death in order to make sure that people would be humble enough to pay taxes and serve the church well so they would not need to deal with this omnipotent creature. In contrast, being a nice servant to the church, they would go with the Angels when their time is up. Even reading the word of "angels" makes us feel better doesn't it?  

So in short, death has always been a hot, scary and dark topic and there have always been forces who wanted us to be afraid of death. Again, it is not hard to create scarcity and be able to manipulate humans since we are generally afraid of what we don't know and have no control over.

Another thing is good to keep in mind that fear is a learned behavior. There have been many, many experiments in the field of Psychology how animals were trained/conditioned to be afraid of certain images or sounds. An example from life: if your mom was afraid of frogs and mice, it is very likely that you will be afraid of them too.  But for sure, they will not be your favorite animals. This is very similar to death. We have not heard anything good about it, our cultural DNA is programmed (for example owl or a crow is a sign of death in almost any culture) that death is the worst thing that could happen to us.


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What we don't consider, either because we forgot or because we don't know about, is that from the very beginning of time, up till about the 19th century, cultures and tribes were celebrating the Black Madonna. They had a statue of a dark female figure (very often in the house as well) and on the agora that was worshiped and celebrated. People at that time understood the rhythm and the cycle of life and death.

They had animals and very regularly they lost these animals either because of a disease or they needed to kill their animals to survive. They had their favorite dog to guard the sheep and it got old and passed.  They spent days by planting the seeds, but something disastrous happened and the entire crop was gone. They were living with and in nature. They knew the Nature of Life and Death: they knew and accepted the fact that spirits come and go.

In every tribe and village in almost every culture, there was at least one (usually a single) woman who was living in the very last house in the village. She was considered weird and had a fearful reputation. Yet when someone was fatally sick, or wanted to abort a secret baby, they knocked on her door. When someone died and the house was not in peace afterwards, when the spirit should have left, they knocked on her door to calm the spirit down and send it away.

Last thing, back in time, there were ceremonies held that supported emotionally and spiritually both the passed over person and those who stayed here. This blog does not give me enough space to write about these rituals and the meaning of the rituals of death, but one thing is sure. Traditions, attitude and knowledge may have changed during the centuries; we may be less emotionally connected to our inner world, but the fact of how life changes after a loved one passed on hasn't and will never change.


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The other thing many of us don't know about is that many people have had a " near death experience".   This is an excellent expression: "near death" ... near because they get very close to the boundary of life and actual death from where there is no way back. Raymond Moody wrote tons of very precious information about this topic. He was one of my favorite authors when I was writing my thesis in Psychology on this topic. The reports and interviews with these people are very useful and surprisingly similar which can give us some hope that there is still something after life. Our soul will not die, even if we leave our physical body behind. These people who have had a near death experience are usually declared dead. The machines show and detect no signs of life. Heart and brain waves are off. "Done". Yet some people come back and a few of them talk about experiences of love, peace and light to the extent that nothing on earth comes close to that experience.

According to Moody and other experts in the topic, each of the people who had a near death experience and remember what happened while they were "dead" said in one way or another that they had met an angel or a light being (many say it was Jesus or the Virgin Mary) that was so loving that the person who was considered to be "dead" could not resist and wanted to follow this loving being. They were able to see, feel, follow and talk to this Light Being and they were able to looking back at their lives and family at the same time. To cut it short, all the people who have had near death experiences were sent back to their body. Some came back voluntarily (knowing they have unfinished businesses on earth), some were forced back by this loving not judging force of love and light.

Those who remember these experiences and remember their conversation with this being usually go through a major change in their approach of life. They were made to understand what the real purpose of life is: LOVE! Any and all aspects of love: feeling, giving, receiving, showing, unconditionally and unselfishly. This does not mean that these people become saints after their near death experiences. They are human beings meaning they have good and bad days, they fall off their tracks, but they never forget that feeling of being loved and cared for without any judgment. Many of these people were interviewed and all of them said they were not afraid of death any more. They got to know there is something on the other side.

So what is going on then? What are we afraid of then? First of all, in our world of technology, computers and busy schedules we got out of balance. We are not connected to our inner universal wisdom of life and death. We got disconnected from the elements of life and death. You see, we haven't changed too much or enough. You learned in history classes that ancient people buried their loved ones with food, tools, cloths sometimes even with pets or spouses to make sure they had everything they needed on the other side.

Basic things have not changed regardless of time in history, now or then. You cannot have a phone call, face time, Skype or zoom with grandma on the other side. We feel lost, helpless and we have no purpose in the other person's life any more. Then life situations keep remind us: we have a family gathering and the chair where granny used to sit is empty now. Maybe she was the one who cooked the best chicken soup and baked the best cake on earth.... These meals and cakes are not on the menu any more. I know you get what I am talking about; I don't need to get into more details.

This is the point when we can talk about mourning, the fear of losing someone and grief. Psychology talks about the five stages of grief (Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, in her 1969 book, defined these 5 stages of grief in her book "On Death and Dying").

"Denial: The first reaction to learning about the terminal illness, loss, or death of a cherished loved one is to deny the reality of the situation. “This isn’t happening, this can’t be happening,” people often think. It is a normal reaction to rationalize our overwhelming emotions.
 
Anger: may be directed at our dying or deceased loved one. Rationally, we know the person is not to be blamed. Emotionally, however, we may resent the person for causing us pain or for leaving us. We feel guilty for being angry, and this makes us more angry.
 
Bargaining: This is an attempt to bargain. Secretly, we may make a deal with God or our higher power in an attempt to postpone the inevitable, and the accompanying pain. This is a weaker line of defense to protect us from the painful reality. The normal reaction to feelings of helplessness and vulnerability is often a need to regain control through a series of “If only” statements, such as: "If only we had sought medical attention sooner…", "If only we got a second opinion from another doctor…", "If only we had tried to be a better person toward them…". Guilt often accompanies bargaining. We start to believe there was something we could have done differently to have helped save our loved one.

Depression: There are two types of depression that are associated with mourning. The first one is a reaction to practical implications relating to the loss. Sadness and regret predominate this type of depression. We worry about the costs and burial. We worry that, in our grief, we have spent less time with others that depend on us. This phase may be eased by simple clarification and reassurance. We may need a bit of helpful cooperation and a few kind words.

The second type of depression is more subtle and, in a sense, perhaps more private. It is our quiet preparation to separate and to bid our loved one farewell. Sometimes all we really need is a hug.

Acceptance: Reaching this stage of grieving is a gift not afforded to everyone. Death may be sudden and unexpected or we may never see beyond our anger or denial. It is not necessarily a mark of bravery to resist the inevitable and to deny ourselves the opportunity to make our peace. This phase is marked by withdrawal and calm. This is not a period of happiness and must be distinguished from depression."

Note: to save myself time, I copied and pasted all the content of the 5 stages of grief from the website: https://psychcentral.com/lib/the-5-stages-of-loss-and-grief/

These phases are interchangeable. It is not something that we really can control. It is a natural and genuine flow of our psyche. Sometimes we skip one or two of these stages. But psychology also realized that people who suppress the steps and keep living their life as if nothing has happened, people who don't honor their own emotional process of grief, eventually they will need to pay the price of untruthful grief. When they face smaller losses and downfalls in life, suddenly all the suppressed emotions, depression, anger etc. will erupt as a volcano and hit in a way that was not expected.

So it is totally normal to cry for long hours and feel empty and the urge to contact that person already on the other side. You may feel really accurately that two of you have unfinished business. You need to know yourself and give enough time for yourself to let that person go. Keep in mind that until you hold your ties strongly to that spirit, she cannot really leave the earthly plane and you will have no energy and capacity to deal with the people who are here with you, your family. That is not fair to them, either. Then you will feel guilty for not being there for them. Actually, if people knew how hard and miserable they make those spirits' lives on the other side by holding them here emotionally and mentally (keeping a picture around, constantly talking to them, asking their opinion on certain matters etc), they would let them go much faster. It is just the uncertainty and our control freak ego that wants to know that that person on the other side and we (here) will be fine separated.


So the solution is to know where your boundaries are. If you are not sure, you can always seek for a professional's help. I think of a psychologist; at least just to see if you have a "complicated grief disorder" or you are OK and you can forgive yourself for crying weeks after weeks. If you feel you steel need to tell something or hear something form that person, you can always find a medium and she will connect the two of you.

Probably you didn't know that the ancient Greeks created a room to make it possible to a person in this life to connect to someone on the other side. They made a special room in which there was a door with a window in it then another windowed door behind it and another etc. The person who wanted to connect with the spirit on the other side sit in front of the first door which was lit in a certain way and after a short while, the person on the other side became visible and they could have a conversation and finish their business. So you see, letting someone go has been an issue for thousands of years (we haven't changed a lot, right?). The key, again and last time, is to learn to let things and people go.

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The other side of the sword is when you are afraid of dying. If you visualize that your body is put on the cremation table or "you" will be buried into the ground can be very scary, dark, painful and depressing or hot and flamy. Many people think that by death, their consciousness will be gone too. They think their body will be in the ground and then it is blank; there is nothing, and that is really the end.

What these people don't know that we borrow this body for this lifetime. Everybody has had a dream or a feeling, a déjà vu that things have happened before. People often have a feeling that they had been on the same place before where they are standing right now, for the first time in their life. Why do we have these feelings? Where are they coming from?

How about your soul? The soul remembers!!! Our soul (different from our ego) remembers where we lived, who we met in another lifetime. When we have these feelings or visions about something that had happened before, though we know it was not in this lifetime, are signs that there is something more than just the here and now with the past in our memory and the anxiety of the future. How is that possible that millions of people who have had near death experiences say very similar things about the places and beings they met that were not in this life?

Our soul knows that there is something after life. When I was writing my thesis about the symbolism of death for my Psychology degree, almost everyone at the department was shocked. Most of the teachers asked me: "Why are you writing about death? You are not depressed or are you?" You know the next question a psychologist would ask: "Do you want to talk about it?" :) I said: "No, I am not depressed. I know it is a taboo topic. Most of us are afraid of death. I want to see beyond the veils and find out what people know about death without knowing about it! That is why I will use symbols and archetypes and will not ask anyone directly about death." And I did. And let me tell you, my thesis created a big storm in the department, because the result reached way beyond the boundaries of psychology. The conclusion was (after interviewing about 300 people from all different fields of life and occupations) that we know somewhere deep inside that life does not end at the end of life :) We know inside, we just need some help to get in touch with our wisdom that Einstein verbalized so well: "Energy cannot be created or destroyed, it can only change forms" in other words: energy will not disappear, it just transforms.

If we are energy, not our body but the part that makes our body move. Not the heart, or muscles or the nervous system but the one that makes you get out of the bed, have goals in your life, feeling (un)fulfilled in life, seeking for the truth.... That part knows that there is a continuum on the other side of the veil. And we just think that only a few can peep behind that curtain. But nope. All of us have that skill. You just need to remember how to use that skill.

Now, here is even a more spiritual aspect of fear of death. Most of us have had other lives. Please just believe in it till you read this paragraph and then you can not believe in it again :). So let's assume we keep coming back here to earth because we want to learn something. Do you remember from earlier in the blog what the final conclusion was to all the people who have had near death experiences? It is love (to learn to love unselfishly and unconditionally). But anyway. We have had so many lives and most of them ended in a very tragical way: accident, you were killed, persecuted, died from the pain of being tortured. As I mentioned before, the Soul remembers! Of course, when life or a certain type of death is getting close to you, you freak out! Your soul remembers. Your ego is smart and pushes things into the unconscious so you can live your life. Can you imagine living a life and keep seeing movies in your mind or having feelings of other lives' failures or victories... It is already so hard to focus on the here and now; then how we could handle knowing about all of our lives and methods of death. How about if our unconscious and ego would not be in charge and everything would flood you over? Very often when someone has an extreme fear of death is actually the result of a tragical death experience in another life. Just let's stop for a moment and answer to these questions: What is the way of dying you fear the most? The one you go crazy about and would do anything to escape that type of death? Why is that type and not another? Have you ever thought of it?  Very often it happens that someone starts having an anxiety of death at a certain age of her life. Maybe, it is because she is at the same age as when she died in another life. Very often we are afraid of the pain that led us to death in another life and not death itself. So we are afraid of re-experiencing that pain, madness, suffering etc our Soul remembers and is afraid of.

What is the Solution?  Look for a soul or a life coach. A therapist may not be able to step over her professional boundaries. Many people love it and nowadays it is very popular to take a "Past Life Regression Session". I personally really do not agree with this technique, but if you are up to opening the lid of Pandora's chest ..., go for it. I am a psychologist and I believe in the wisdom of our EGO and unconscious... you will remember spontaneously what you need to when you are ready... To force it...; it is like forcefully open someone's third eye. Be careful, and chose wisely who you trust to share your inner chaos with, and who you give your hand to in order to lead you out of the dungeon you are in. You know the answer inside!!! Thank you for being open; now you can go back to your original "I don't believe in other lives" point of you. This is how long the paragraph lasts :).


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The very last thought about death: There is a very interesting aspect of death that nobody really talks about but it is present in our everyday life. It is when we ourselves go through our evolution: go through some stages or phases in our lives. Losing a job, a friendship, a house or a car, and the worse: your health and get diagnosed with a terminal illness ... Anything we have had an emotional connection with, and is gone now, can create an avalanche of new happenings and life situations in our life.

These changes require a lot of adjustment, grief and all the 5 stages I mentioned above to go through, before we are able to integrate to the next level.  We do all of these things by activating the elements (wood, air, fire, earth, metal, water and ether) within us (more about it maybe another time). These life situations are a kind of near death experience. How many times we die inside by going through a divorce, a betrayal of someone we loved deeply, being laid off etc.. These are very similar to the stages of grief (denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance) and to the experiences we have before death. Plus, we always have an  Angelic/Divine presence more than ever during these tough times of our life. It is just a question whether we see them and accept them or we are blind the same way the spirit who attached to us and blind to see the light. You need to call their attention to follow and go through the tunnel.... (If you don't know what I am talking about, read my previous blog "Be Aware Of Unusual Feelings And New Habits"). Isn't it that we have at least ONE person who guides and leads us through these very rough times of life? Isn't it that this person is showing us the light and supports us with their unconditional and judgment free love? Isn't it very similar to the experience those people reported coming back from the mouth of death?

OK. I stop now. Because I could go on and on. I hope this marathon blog was in a way useful, educational and eye opening, say soul awakening for you. I hope you will make one step away from your fears and will get a better view about your emotions regarding death. If you still feel you need help and you feel inside it is me who can help, fill out the form on the "contact page" and let's set up an appointment; otherwise please share this blog with your friends. Can you name three people in your life who have issues with grief or someone who is afraid of death? Then share this blog with them. Maybe it will help them.

I have much brighter topics in my mind to share with you in the future, so lets' leave the "other side" behind and focus on this life. :)

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Be Aware Of Unusual Feelings And New Habits /signs of Spirit Attachment and spirit Release ritual

7/31/2020

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I hope you are doing safe and you have discovered how you can maintain peace and love in this craziness this present time in our world. I have been writing blogs in my head since the last one. There were so many thoughts, channeling and information coming in to me about what the Spiritual message is and how we could get over COVID 19 globally ASAP that I could not even decide where I should start writing about it.  I have at least three drafts on my computer.... It was just not meant to be published.   

Regardless of my "passive, unpublished blogging", life went on with all the regulations due to the virus which have created a lot of blocks, and detour in merely everybody's life. The world has turned upside down. The stress, anxiety that COVID and the attached regulations brought to our lives; the bleakness regarding our near future, the lack of understanding of the deep message of this whole pandemic exploded the volcano of suppressed issues that spread like a wild fire around the world (see what started in America a month or so ago).

Unfortunately, this chaos is not only here on our 3 dimensional Earth, but there is a constant war on the astral plane. I have never seen these many spirits coming and going, so many demonic creatures hanging around us.... No wonder it is so hard to stay in peace, positive and mostly in love.

One of my best friends from Hungary sent me a message on messenger the other day: "I have been feeling so blue, low, and depressed for the last two weeks. Now I am visiting my parents and it is even worse. Is it just them? There is no reason why I feel so depressed. I am smiling at my son, but I need to force it. What's going on?"

I attuned into her and I got the knowing that she has a spirit attached to her. I knew from her last message that that a few weeks ago she was invited to a surprise birthday party, where she over ate herself with pizza. Her... overeating...pizza...????? When I heard it from her, I could not believe my eyes to read it. But I said, Ok. it happens. But it is unusual and weird.  

When I read her last message and intuitively connected to her, I knew that she picked up that spirit at the party. She did not tell me what mood she went to the party. Why it is important is because these spirits are very "sensitive" to our low vibes and feelings. Either way, you don't need too much to have a spirit get attached to you. One honest bitter thought is enough and they can hook in. It happens to us all the time, we are just not aware of it. Then when we raise our vibes, they will leave because they cannot stand light, and love.

Going back to the beginning of this blog, now Earth is overloaded with spirits who have been here for a while but cannot pass into the light and with spirits who have come from different realms "to visit us" in this juicy chaotic time of ours.

What happened to my friend as I mentioned above, a spirit who got hooked into her lower vibes, got deeper and deeper into her energetic field and slowly started to take control over her energies, then her mood then her feelings and eventually her habits. Should she be not this aware and sensitive, this spirit eventually can "move into" her (posses) and completely take control over her life. Scary, isn't it?... BUT!! Like for everything, there is a solution. I am "glad" this topic came up, because it is more vital and essential to keep protecting and cleaning your aura and your home than ever!!!!

A few hints how you attract one/more "visitor(s)" into your aura in other words Signs of Spirit Attachment:
  • You slowly or suddenly starting to feel low, tired, fatigue ore even depressed
  • you start craving for things you have not wanted or loved for a long  time (another really dear friend of mine knows if one specific (living) person is attaching to her because she suddenly is craving for cokes. She normally never drinks soda, but when this person -alive is attaching to her, she is getting crazy and needs to go to the store and buy one. Yes! You have read it right. Sometimes a living person can attach to you and influence you. Who? Anybody you have a strong emotional (positive or negative) relationship with, like your husband, parents, kids, boss co worker.... etc. You have emotional chemistry with these people, right? Oh, and the ones you cannot stand! They love hanging on you and sucking your energy. Does it sound familiar?
  • You start feeling having physical symptoms, like headache, nausea, feeling a stomach bug, or even having a real stomach bug with diarrhea... Many "food poisoning" symptoms are often not what they seem like, especially if you haven't been out to dinner and yet you have something out of normal. I know a very nice couple. They are very intuitive and spiritual on their own way, I mean not using their spiritual skills consciously. They are having food poisoning symptoms one after the other, especially the guy. But last time the wife had one. The gist of it is that she hadn't even left the house; she ate the same things like others... yet... "I almost died, it was so bad"
  • You suddenly or slowly building up insomnia... you cannot go to sleep or even if you sleep you are so tired next morning that you are like a zombie... click, click...? Oh, yeah. We have visitors at night too, who love to suck out our life force energy.
  • In short, anything that is feeling, smelling tasting weird cloud be, not always, but very possibly can be a sign of spirit attachment. Literally, sometimes, your smelling, or tasting abilities change.

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Solution?

1/ Get to know your energy and yourself.  Pay attention to the small changes and discomfort in your body or mind or heart. Those are not necessarily the signs of getting old. Yes, we are sensitive to weather and air pressure, the changing phases of the moon, our menstrual cycle, ladies... all; but !!! If you learn to start paying attention internally, you will know. Your gut feeling will tell you, "something is not OK". Listen to it!

2/ Read my previous blogs about cleaning and protecting yourself and your home. If you read it, read it again, it will make a different sense now. Choose one technique and try it, then another etc.

3/ If you feel it is a spirit, here is a little ritual that can help you to get rid of them. These spirits, most of the times, are harmless. They are just lost, and like you and me have a soul and a kind of consciousness. The only thing they don't have is their human body. Most of them are not aware of this, so they are just hanging around (The movie: 6th Sense with Bruce Willis). Others know it (that they are dead) and some of these spirits will be attracted to you because you have that inner spark and light and they are attracted to that light within you. They want you to help them to the LIGHT. It happens especially to those people who have natural mediumship abilities (mediumship is the skill to connect with spirits on the other side). They just don't know about it or don't consciously use it.

You don't need to say word by word this self liberating ritual or Spirit Release Ritual I am going to share with you in a minute. If you understand the points, you can verbalize anyway it will feels good to you. Ask help from your guides and angels before you start. They will protect and guide you. Trust them.

Dos and Taboos:

- Don't get emotional with the spirits. Meaning, don't start feeling sorry for them. Talk to them clear, focused and firm as if you were talking to a stranger who is bothering you but you are not afraid to send him/her away.

- The angels of light will open a tunnel for them that they can go through. You need to call the spirit's attention to that. Usually they are "blind" or scared or feel unworthy to pass trough

- They will meet their loved ones who have already left earth and on the other side, but for that, the spirit needs to pass through the light tunnel.  Focus on this fact and describe it to them. It usually works like a magnet. If nothing else, but this one hits... "you can meet all the loved ones you miss so much and they are already on the other side"

- Give them a choice where they want to leave: to the VOID (black nothingness) or to the light. BUT they have no choice to stay or go.  They must leave you, your home, your property! Period. This is where you need to be firm but not scary or scared. Just talk like you mean it.  To explain to them that it is illegal that they have attached to you and it is bad for you and them can be very useful.

- Call the angels and imagine you see the light in the distance getting brighter and bigger; and imagine that this spirit is paying attention to what you are saying and recognizing the light. When you see the light, tell them about their loved ones on the other side.

- You can do it to or with your child or husband or anyone!!! And teach them!!!

- After  the spirit left, say thanks for the angles and Lord Jesus. Then mentally clean, sweep the house and your aura (as if you were dusty and you are swiping it off/ down to the earth). Say thanks to Gaia, too that She  accepts the residues.


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Here is the Self Liberating or Spirit Release Ritual in words:

"Hi spirit! I know, I feel you are here with me. I know you have attached to me, but it is not legal, not right! You still can hear and feel me but you do not have a human body any more.  You are not a person any more. You are dead. You may be aware of it or not. (This is when you must not be emotional with them). But you know the cycle of life and death "once you got born, you will die". You should be on the other side by now, but for any reasons you got stuck here. Attaching to me (my child, husband etc) is not acceptable. It is making me sick, and it is not good for you either. You must leave me, my home, and property, NOW! In the name of God, I claim you to leave me, my home and property! You either go to the VOID or you chose to follow the light (start visualizing the light tunnel opening up with angels coming through). I am asking Lord Jesus, and the angels of light to come and offer you a path and guidance to the other side where love, peace and healing is/are waiting for you. Your loved ones who you have been missing so much are waiting for you on the other side, too. You can reunite with them and feel loved, accepted and healed. (Usually this is the time when you see and feel them to leave you; take a moment and see if he/she is gone).

When the spirit is gone, say: "Thank you for the angels and Jesus to help me and took this spirit away". Now you can open your eyes, or still closed swipe down the energetic leftover and residues from the spirit to the ground and see this "ash/dust" disappearing into the floor or  into the ground below your home saying "Thank you Gaia, mother earth for taking these ashes from me. Amen"

You have just learnt something very useful and attainable. Even if you are not sure if these changes you have noticed lately are because of a spirit or not, you can still do this ritual. Learn paying attention inward and if something is off, send it to the light.

If you think this was useful to you, please share it with your friends and leave a comment or a question here for me. May the light be with you all.


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Protect your aura and home

3/7/2020

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In my last blog,  you could read about  good reasons why it is so important to cleanse your aura and home with along some useful techniques. Now, it is time to learn how to protect yourself. After you aired the room out, you will close the windows, right? Or, you don't want to leave them open while you are away from home, or you are sleeping..., why? Because you want to protect yourself. and your home. The same is on the energetic level: you want to protect yourself from those beings, and earth bound spirits we talked about in the previous blog, but these techniques I am going to share with you in a minute will help you against annoying neighbors, coworkers, a mean boss etc.

As we agreed last time, everything is energy. On the physical level, you can close the doors, and windows, you can pull up high brick walls around your property, you can install the highest quality of alarm system around you to keep out physical intruders. BUT these will NOT help you on the energetic level, which we are much more exposed  to than we are aware of. If you hear someone is messing up with your door knob, you can call the police, but you may not hear or see the spirits around you. You may just feel lately: you are so exhausted, you are so jumpy, irritable, you have cravings you have no idea where it comes from, or you have lost your appetite etc. These are signs that you have a /or some visitors you cannot see or hear or feel. That is why it is so important, again and last time, to keep cleansing yourself, so you will know what is your own energy (level) and you will know when you are under other's energetic influence.

The funny thing about cleansing and protection is that when you are feeling so exhausted and you don't want to do anything, especially these kind of energy work, this is WHEN YOU MUST DO IT!!! Your Highest self is telling you to take action, but these beings are fogging your intuition, they disconnect you from  your Highest self and slowly they take control over you. SO, in short: when you feel  you don't need  to do it or you don't want to do it, that is the moment you must do it!! Now it is time to learn SOME TECHNIQUES YOU CAN USE TO PROTECT YOUR PERSONAL ENERGY FIELD AND HOME, PROPERTY, CAR, OFFICE SPACE, ANYTHING:

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1/ The easiest is  to imagine you have a light bubble around you or home, property etc. You can keep saying the mantra "dome, dome, dome,,," and you imagine a huge cupola hanging over your property.


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2/ You call the beings of light you trust and love, like God, Jesus, Mary the Virgin, Angels, Ascended Masters, Elementals, Nature spirits, Faeries... anyone who is / are close to you.

You can say: "I invoke .... to protect me, my body my aura, my family, my home and property and every living and non living beings on it" and of course, you imagine that these beings are surrounding you and protect you. Even just looking at the picture above, I, personally feel protected.



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3/ The next one a mantra and a beautiful prayer at the same time, which I learned from one of my Psychic teachers and later I found it on the net. I added a few hings to it:


" The Light of God, surrounds me,
The Love  of God enfolds me,
The Power of God, protects me,
The Presence of God watches over me,
The Wisdom of God guides me, (this is my extra line)
Wherever I am, God is!
Thank you!" (this is also  my addition)


Then you start : "The light of the Archangels surround me, The Love of the Archangels enfold me ...."

Then you go on:

"The Light of ... surrounds me,  the Love of .... enfolds me ..." etc

You keep saying this prayer till you are out of ideas, or  you can invoke and call... It is actually an excellent two in one technique: 1/ You need to pay attention what you are saying (you can mix up the lines and words, of course, but) you still need to be in present, so this will redirect your thoughts and you will automatically cleanse yourself/ your home etc. in a very deep level with this mantra prayer. 2/ At the same  time, you will create a very strong energetic protective bubble around you and or the things you ask protection for: ex. you can say "The Light of God surrounds my home /property/ car etc..."

Again, nobody will know that you are sitting under a white light of shower, holding your hands in any of the mudras you learnt last time and you are saying these things in your head... You will just realize that people want to be around you more and more and they will ask you what your are doing? What has changed around you? Very soon, you will feel more confident, stronger and you will feel if there is any entity in the room you cannot see.

CAN YOU SAY THIS PRAYER FOR SOMEONE ELSE? Of course! on top! Please say it! "The Light of God, surrounds my child, the Love of God enfolds my child..."

You can also say "us" meaning all the family members and friends including you: "The light of God surrounds us..." This is YOUR Prayer and your way of invoke Divine protection.

It happens very often to me that I learn something, and I am guided to alter it right at the moment I am learning it. This was the case with the next technique I am going to share with you. This is a very-very strong protective technique, especially, if you are visual and believe in sacred symbols:



4/ Let me share with you first the original way of the next protective technique I learnt from another Psychic teachers of mine, then I will show you the alteration, my Highest Self showed me.

Imagine yourself in the middle of a pentagon star: Turn to East and say: "Archangel Raphael, I invoke you for protection!" -Air; Then turn to South and say: "Archangel Michael, I invoke you for protection!" -Fire; Then turn to West and say: "Archangel Gabriel, I invoke you for protection!" -Water; Then turn to North and say: "Archangel Uriel, I invoke you for protection!" -Earth; Then say: "Archangel Metatron, I invoke you for protection!" -Eather.

Evey time, when you invoke one of the archangels, take a few breaths and fill the element (air, fire, water, earth and aether with along the energy of the Arch Angel you called and is surrounding you! It is a very strong and beautiful protection technique.

I did this technique as it is stated above and I felt really strong and protected; but somehow I felt unbalanced. Something was missing. I asked my Highest Self how I can make it complete and I right away I knew what to add.
My way:
Imagine yourself in the middle of a pentagon star: the single point is in front of you, the two points are on your side - (as if you would reach out  your arms on the side) the other two points are behind you. Focus on your heart chakra (middle of your chest between your breasts) and when you feel centered: Invoke the angels or masters you want to work with. You will call 5 angels; one for each point. Then focus below your feet. Invoke another angel to protect you from below and then one above you by focusing above your head. I call it the PENTAGON DIAMOND.


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5/ The last technique was a surprise to me when I learnt, but worked shockingly well when it was needed. I hope I will never need to do it again. This is against demonic and extreme psychic attacks. I hope nobody reading this post will ever need it. The technique is very simple. Grind boiled egg shells into powder and sprinkle it around your bed or home. It will create the dome I mentioned above as the 1st technique. It will be made of energy beams forming the flower of life over you. Nothing and nobody, not even Jesus or god will be able to come over this energetic dome.
You will be really safe and only with  yourself. But you can try to print the flower of life image itself and put it under your bed and frame it and hang it in the room.



5+1/ I need to tell  you one more and the easiest tool you can use for protection: The bounties of Earth: Crystals. Crystals/gemstones have been helping humanity for thousands of years in healing, growing, cleansing and of course in protection. Black tourmaline,  black onix, labradorite, kyanite, selenite are the best known protective stones. You can google for more if the list is not fulfilling for you. What you need to do is to put one or a few stones under your pillow or make a grid under  your mattress or in your room, meaning place 4 crystals in the 4 corners of your bed (under the mattress) or in the 4 corners of your room. That is all. Eventually clean them with essential oils, water or by placing them into a Tibetan singing bowl (on amazon: https://amzn.to/33nG4NN). Making it sing for a few minutes will cleanse the crystals perfectly. You can also program your crystals when yo place them into the 4 corners by asking them to create a grid/ dome over and around your room so you will safe. Any time when you involve your intention and visualization with your vocalization, your intention will be multiplied and much much stronger!!!
If you liked this post and  you think it is helpful for you and others, please share it, so more people can start being energetically clean and safe. The more we know our own vibrations the more we will be able to manifest or dreams and help to world become a better place!! are you with me?
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cleansing techniques for your aura and house

3/1/2020

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I need to teach in each and every reading a customer how to clean their aura and maybe their house. It is a hot topic, especially in psychic circles, however people who are not involved deeply in the field of energy and healing they do not know what energy cleansing is and why it is so important.

To make it short, we need to cleanse our energy field around us = aura for the same reasons we wash our hands. Juts list 5 things you always wash your hands after or before. I am sure if I ask you why? You would know a reason for each one right away.

That is the same with energy. Everything is energy. We just don't realize that we see or hear it. Think about colors or music. Colors are vibrations. There are certain colors  you can't stand and there are some you would wear them all the time, and or if you could, you would bathe in them. And there are periods in  your life when you are especially crazy about one specific shade.

It is the same with music or sounds. There are some kinds of music you can never get bored of, they lift up your spirit or calms you down; and there are certain types of music or songs that when you hear them,  you want to run. The reason is your energy, your vibes are harmonized with certain colors and sounds; and you are dis-harmonized with others.

When you go to certain places, you step in and want to turn around and leave right instant; and there are places, you never want to leave or you want to visit as often as it is possible. Last example: there are certain people you can't stand regardless everybody talks the highest about them and/or  they try everything to make you accept them; and there are others you "fall in love with" at first sight and you feel you have know them forever. You open up for them and there are no walls between you.

Does any of these sound familiar or make sense?

Then let's take the next step. There are energies or beings around us we do not see or hear. We may feel their presence, but we cannot tell what makes us so uplifted / euphoric or more often, awkward or very uncomfortable.

There are many spirits around us who could not pass over, who still hang out on the Earth plane but they are not in a human body any more (they are called earth bound spirits, or people often call them ghosts). There are several types of these entities and there are several reasons why they are here, but what we need  to know about them now is that they can get attach to your energy field or hang around in your home/office etc. They find you for usually two reasons. They got attracted to your energy either because you send out negative and low vibes, like anxiety, bitterness, low self esteem which may result in guilt, fear, enviousness etc., or they are around you because you have really high vibes and they hope you will help them. They want to pass over but they cannot do it by themselves. (The group of spirits, you have also heard about or seen in movies,  that need help from you to  deliver a message to a person or the world, and that is why they bother you, can be put into this category. Once they are helped, most of them are willing to leave). But living people around you, like your neighbors, co workers, bosses, kids, family members etc can project negative energies toward you. How? simply just thinking or saying bad things about you, what they don't like about you or what bad things wish you to experience.

Since it is not a mediumship training, let's just say that you are either high or low, you may attract these beings. They will get into your aura, they may altar your thinking, your diet, you may start craving for things you have never liked before or gave up many years ago. They may bother you while sleeping ... most of the time they are harmless. They are basically "lost people without a body".  Again, this blog does not let me to go into details about who (what spirits) and how intensively or how strongly they interfere with your energy, but one thing is sure: they have low vibes and they are not helpful to you ex.: they can make you sick; so here we are we are back where we started: it is time to wash your hands again.

So the way to keep you clean and safe from these low vibrational beings is to cleanse your very personal space = aura around you. You can consider your aura as a kind of extension of your body; and you want your body to be clean, right?

HERE ARE SOME EASY TOOLS AND TECHNIQUES ABOUT HOW TO CLEANSE YOUR AURA:


1/ imagine yourself under a shower of white light. It can come from a shower or a waterfall or from white and divine clouds.... anything.  Imagine that this white light is running down on the outside of your aura, then it cleans the actual energy field = aura. You can go further, and you can imagine that this white light washes down your skin and your body inside as well; all  your organs, tissues, cells and atoms. Come on! Close your eyes and imagine it. When you are done, come back and read further.

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2/ Put 1-3 drops of high grade essential oil into your left palm, gently rub it with your right palm and move your hands around 1-2 inches above your skin as if you were using a moisturizer. Don't forget your back or head! Use lavender, pine, geranium, peppermint, wild orange, jasmine or holy basil essential oils (or do more research if none of these called  you). Doterra makes very clean and high grade  essential oils. Check them out here: Lavender: https://amzn.to/2TqRAU4; wild orange: https://amzn.to/2VySPDh; peppermint: https://amzn.to/2PA7hXN; geranium: https://amzn.to/3ajj3hj; pine: https://amzn.to/3cfc0Ie; holy basil: https://amzn.to/2PAAzWA.  After using your etheric moisturizer, you can reach your arms above your head, palms facing outward and move your hands facing away from your body from over your head down under your feet.

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3/ This is a Feng Shui space cleansing technique: Peel an orange and put 9 pieces of the skin into a bowl. Let it soak overnight. Next day put the orange soaked water in a spray bottle and spray around in the room or into your aura. You can try that you put 9 drops of your wild orange essential oil into your spray bottle. Don't forget to shake it before you spray around! It is  up to you how light or strong you want your solution to be, meaning how much water you use.

4/ Yoga uses mudras (hand gestures) for a lot of reasons. Let me just be short and show you some mudras which have very strong cleansing effects. The really good thing about these mudras is that you can put  your hands into your pocket holding one of these mudras. Nobody will know what your are doing but negative energy will just dispel around you. It is worth a try, right? There is a very good mudra deck of cards that might be useful for you to have at home. You can just keep the deck at hand and find the one you need at that moment or do a mudra for the day kind of thing. I am amazed how strongly these mudras work. I can feel in my body how they open and activate the meridians in my body. I often go to sleep by holding a mudra. Here is the deck I talked about: Mudras of Yoga: 72 hand Gestures for Healing and Spiritual Growth : https://amzn.to/3cwkHOG. I know that this deck teaches the mudras I will show you. You can find other yoga mudra resources, just explore and  listen  to  your intuition! This might be another good resource: https://amzn.to/2TrR7B7

Here are some of the mudras that will help you be clean and free of energetic debris and beings: This is the 1st one, called Kasyapa.
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Karana mudra:
You can hold your fingers the way this picture shows or you can put  your thumb on both of the fingernails of your middle and ring finger.

If you feel you really need to clean your room or house, put your left hand in Kasyapa behind your back on the sacrum and put your right hand in Karana in your lap. Close your eyes and imagine you are breathing in white light and and as you exhale while holding your hands in these position you start growing and your energy is getting bigger and bigger, feeling up the room then the whole house and pushing out all unwanted energy from your home and property. You can say any prayer to enhance the power of this strong technique.

One of my favorite mantra they taught me from above (while I am holding my hands explained above): "I am one with light and light is me." These low vibe beings DO NOT LIKE light or love so this mantra will ring the bell for them and also for you too. Remember : you are light = energy and god. You can change the words saying: "I am one with love and love is me"



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This mudra is about destruction. I use it to release my own negative emotions, like doubt, egoism, guilt etc. The card from the deck about this mudra says: "Trishula Mudra symbolizes the destruction of anything that inhibits the flourishing of your basic goodness and Original Nature." Make sure you will point with your triple antennas away from animals, plants or people; anything that you do not want to destroy. Pointing toward the ground is a good direction.

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5/  The last technique for now is saging or smudging. It is an ancient Native American ritual to get rid of negative energies, thought forms, emotional forms and beings. I am sure you will find several ways and tricks online about how to do it. Basically, you need a bunch of dried sage, like these: https://amzn.to/2VxmKMh. They are tied together with a string, so before lighting it, loosen up the string and start unwinding it. As your sage burns, unroll the string. It is useful to have a seashell or another bowl to collect ashes. You can use a feather to get the smoke/ smudge around in your aura or in the room or you can more your sage bundle in a clockwise direction. Just make sure you will cover your smoke detector and you will be careful with the tiny ashes and debris falling off the string or sage.


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Finishing up this blog, we are exposed to so much though forms, emotional forms in life, meaning the dramas of your co-workers and the ones you created. Next time we will talk about protection, but for now just imagine you are walking in water. This water is full of trash like, plastic bags, soda cans, food left overs etc. yuk, hu? Well, unfortunately,  this is how most of our natural water resources look like. But this is symbolically how our energetic environment is: the plastic bag is jealousy from your neighbor, the soda can is a headache from  your spouse and the food leftover is guilt from your coworker about yelling at her child this morning.. you too? Wow. you got hooked on it.

The first step to know your own energy and being able to tell when you are under other people's influence is to get to know your  OWN, DIVINE energy. That is why you need to cleanse  and cleanse and cleanse.... Instead of getting on FB while you are waiting for your child at his basketball training next time, imagine you are sitting under the white shower while you are having your hands in any of the mudras mentioned above. If you want to take it to the next level, just keep saying to yourslef and god: "Thank you God!, Thank you God!, Thank you God!..." etc. You might be surprised how differently you will go on and finish your day!


Let me know if you have any questions or comments about this topic. See you next time learning about some protection techniques!
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What shall i ask from a psychic?

2/18/2020

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I did about 25 readings in the last two weeks. Only one out of the 25 people had a specific question. Everybody else said: "not really, whatever you see". When I hear this answer, I connect to the person highest self = god self and I get information about what the highest self, the wisest part of us wants the person know about. In this case, sometimes people don't hear what they really want to hear, but a lot of healing happens during a session like that. One of the 25 clients wanted to hear that all her financial trouble will go away and within a short period of time everything will be okay and stable. Well, that was not the case. First, she needs to release her anger toward her past and then to let go of guilt and obsessively pleasing others. When she will get there, she can really start working on her new financial future. She got the life situation as a life lesson for this life and got the lesson from the same person who already harmed her in another life they shared. That is a big package! Another lady of the 25 needed to let her two past husbands go in order to be ready to a new relationship. She was so honest and sweet when I asked her how she was feeling during the session. She said:" Not good! I was happy when I came. Now I am not! I want to be happy again! But I clearly understand what I need to do and why." At the end of the session, she felt much better and walked away some specific assignments to do to work releasing the past.

I can say everybody was happy and satisfied with their session. They realized they got a lot of information that was right on and if they had to work on something in their life, it was clear what to do. I had only one person, who walked in and was resistant during the whole time. Nothing made sense to her, we did some healing, she did not feel anything... nothing worked. At the end of the session I asked her, what was at least one thing she would walk away with that it was worth to her. She said: "Nothing. I hoped we will talk about someone on the other side I have emotional connection with." I got shocked. "But I asked you if you have a question in the beginning! What happened? Why didn't you ask?" "I did not know it is a question"

The lesson to me is to say very politely next time that it is not a good match, don't waste each others' time" and do not try to please someone till the end of the rope when it is obvious she is not open (it is a kind of life lesson to me and some of us).  
The lesson to you: 1/ Asking about spirits on the other side is not a psychic thing; it is Mediumship. Many mediums are psychic abut not many psychics are (real) mediums! That is good to know and keep in mind. Many psychics are able to tap into the spirit you want to know about on the other side, but she is doing it through you. She is tapping intuitively into your energy filed and gets information about that person. Mediumship is another piece of cake. Very often you want to hear let's say about your mom, but Uncle John comes through. It is not the medium/psychic who decides who will really come and connect with you! Maybe after Uncle John, your mom will come, but it is neither your nor the psychic's decision. This is very hard to understand as a client unless you get trained in mediumship. Many people claim themselves as mediums but what they actually do is they intuitively read you and your relationship, your memories, your perspectives about the person you want to hear about. But real mediumship is when the medium is able to tell you things about your loved one that you don't know and  you need to do some research. She is able to give information about your loved one's perspective on the other side (and not yours). The reason why the decision who will come through first or who will come through at all is NOT on our side (meaning in this living world) but it depends on the other side is because it takes energy from the spirit to respond to the call and come through. If that spirit does not have enough energy for any reason, she may not be able to come through the veils between her and our world. That is why a strong spirit may come first who is able to "break through the walls". That is for today's mediumship tainting for you today :)

 
The other lesson to you, who might be going to see me or another psychic, is: "Everything or anything is a question!" Anything that is on your mind or you wish or desire; any life issue, anything... is a question. If your question needs to be rephrased, the psychic will help  you. But if there is anything is on your mind, ask!

The last thing I would like to share with you is. When you are sitting across a psychic or you are on the phone, She may see many many things in your aura. Sometimes it is so busy that it is really hard to see what the most important thing is. If you don't guide your psychic (with a question), Your Highest Self will guide her and she will start talking about that issue. It is not helpful to walk in with the attitude: "Ok, you are a psychic, tell me what I want". If a psychic is on target at about 80%, she is considered to be a really good one.  All psychics can do that they tell what the person was thinking and give the answer before it was asked. BUT the coin has two sides. You need to be open and receptive.

To summarize it up, 1/ when you meet a psychic, create a question in advance; or if you cannot put it into a question, describe your life situation. Your psychic will pick it up and help you. 2/ if she is not starting with what you want to hear about (since you have no question), listen to the first stream of information ( maybe (!) :), there is something for you in there!) and if it does not apply to you, say: "maybe, I don't know" and then ASK your question. 3/ You need to be open. As I mentioned above: "The coin has two sides" + the rim! :) If you are not open and you say "no" to everything you hear about yourself, you will freeze up the energy and you both will walk away with bad feelings. You pay your psychic because you have a question you don't see clearly about or because your Highest Self guides you there. You need a "push" to get back on your path. The more you help your psychic, the more you will get out of the session and the more you will get for your money.

I hope I could help you with this blog.If you liked this post, please share it with your friends; and leave a comment if you have and question. :)
 

In my next blog, I will teach you techniques how to clean yourself energetically and your home.

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who are hybrids?

2/11/2020

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Last time, I wrote about an interesting story of a reading. Did it touch your heart or  you said:" ehhh, weird..."? If you were fascinated by the story that actually someone could have been a forest elf and had a dragon, if you could have imagined the story as if it was a movie or you had all different kinds of sensations in  your body, most probably you are a hybrid too.

Does nature create hybrids (when
animals or plants resulting from a cross between two races, breeds, strains, or varieties of the same species)? Do we know any of them? Oh, yes, sure. google these: "hybrid animals" and you will see pictures of "liger, pizzly, wholphin, zeedonk" etc. coming up. Can you guess what kind of animals were they breeding to create these hybrids? 

The next question is. Ok, animals and plans may do it, but humans? As I mentioned in the story of my last blog: "
A hybrid's Story on Earth", Human-hybrids are beings on earth  who have human genes, of course, otherwise they could not be here with us, but they also have different lineages. Very often, they are called star seeds. Science cannot see it yet, but there are already experiments and results that show that there have been human beings on earth with unusual DNAs. They have found human skeletons which were the size we would call giants. They have found human skeletons with unusual skull shapes.
Even if science is just about to open up for these things, I am sure you have seen people who look like (body type) and dress like dwarfs, elves or faeries. You usually feel "different" just being around them.  You know who I am talking about..., right?

If it sounds too much like a fiction, I encourage you to do some google research or get the book "
Hybrids, So You Think You are Human" by Tanis Helliwell (to get this book click on this link:https://amzn.to/31TkYGg). This book will blow your mind and if you feel you need to get this book and read it, you might also find what kind of hybrid you are.

I am not going to summarize the book here, but I would like to point out something very important. There are people walking among us, who feel that they are not from this earth. You now what I am talking about, You feel in  your body and in your heart. Your inner compass or pendulum would swing if I ask: "Are you a human?" or I ask "Have you come to earth from somewhere else?"

If you are a human, you enjoy every bit of life here. You love parties, drinking, eating, you take a lot of things as facts life represents to you. You may feel really sad and upset about what things go on in the world but you would say: "ok, that is part of life, we should do better!"

If you have issues with socializing, people say, you are "weird or too sensitive", you have digestive problems, you  cry over a dead tree or animal, if you prefer animals and plants to people, if you just don't understand how people work in general: greed, enviousness, hate,  if  you keep running into walls, because you have an idea and you are proactive yet it takes forever that thing would manifest in your life, you might have come from a place where these things are not present or they manifest in a much faster manner.

To be a human hybrid or star seed is not an easy thing: "you are too  this or you are not enough that" you have weight issues, you have social issues, you have time issues, you have money issues. You are here in your physical body but  you feel and experience everything on a very deep level. You are consciously looking for the spiritual solutions or meanings behind things. You know that there is more than just go to work, come home and have fun in life. You feel you have a calling to make the world a better place. Not only from the technical and medical inventions point of view but to help people awaken and bring them to their heart. 

I love working with hybrids. They are so pure and so "raw" in the way of their motivations. Yet they have so many guilt, issues, pain, fear, confusion etc. because they don't understand why people don't get them and why everything needs to be a hassle. When we work on these inner issues and they understand their "origin" (dragon, elf, faerie, el, dolphin, troll, giant, be, horus etc) they also start forgiving themselves and people around them. They understand, something clicks about where they and their family and friends are at their evolution and LOVE will flow in to heal.

Are you up to a journey? Let's talk. :)

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A hybrid's Story on Earth

2/3/2020

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I had a beautiful reading this weekend. It was about a short woman sitting across me. Her aura was shiny and glowing. It was her very first time to have a reading. I asked if she had any questions. She said, no "just read me".

So I looked at her aura and I started to see that she is a Forest Elf. This means that she is in a human body now, but she has other roots as well from another dimension. I started to tell stories about how she has deep concerns about trees and the Earth and how she tries to protect all living things on Earth and how she is ridiculed for these tendencies of hers. She can bring back to live a dead plant and has magic touches on animals. I also told her that she has a skill to look through people and they take it as an attack, but she can't stand lies and she is so truthful and straight that she gets into trouble for it a lot. At the same time she is very sensitive and takes all criticism and notes really deeply in her heart. She loves everything in order and has a tendency to be impatient and often burst out. While I was describing her life's main tendencies, the only thing she was doing was nodding with her head big, huge "yes"-es. I asked her if she wants to go from here and have healings on it, but she said, "just go on! I am fascinated! I want to hear more about that life"

So I looked at her again and I saw while he (She was a he in that lifetime) was walking in the forest and found an egg. He took care of the egg and when it hatched, it turned out it was an egg of a baby male dragon's. They became the best friends. They got separated and they haven't seen each other for hundreds of years.

I told her she can call her dragon, he is ready and here. She needed help, so we did together. What was really special about this reading that if you had opened the door at that moment, you would have seen two women sitting across each other with closed eyes and talking about a dragon... :)

What was really special is that we both saw the same things: the same colors, the same dragon and we had the same feelings. It was breathtaking how the two souls recognized each other and reunited. 

She was so overjoyed at the end feeling the security and guardianship around her. She looked even more vibrant. "You have no idea how much you helped me to understand why things are like in  my life and how much better I feel about myself and people in my life. I cannot tell you how secured and safe I feel. Never like this in my life!"


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    I am Heni and I am a born Psychic and Healer I spent more than 10 years in college and university to become a Psychologist, and Family Counselor. I have been trained and got certified in several healing modalities like Aura Soma, Feng Shui, Physic Healer, Akashic Reader, Medical Intuitive, life coach.  I am here  to help you to overcome your challenges in life with the double gift of finding the root of the real issue with my psychic abilities and helping you come out from your negative life experience through coaching. These articles will give you little notes and thoughts on useful topics.

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